Thursday, April 27, 2006

We Do What Were Told

When would we ever stop doing what were told? When would people stop telling us what to do? Is that all there is to life? Everyday, we do as we're told. Like dogs, "Roll over and sit". In school, teacher says do maths, we do maths. Teacher says bring books, we bring books. Even at home. Mother says iron your clothes, we iron our clothes. Mother says mop the floor, we mop the floor. Honestly, the quality of life has dropped by a drastic amount since humans became 'smart'. Don't you think so?

This way of life has been adapted for such a long time now. Ever since humans learned how to rule, they have been doing what they're told. So there's no way we could ever change that. Though sometimes its interesting to think what life would be if it wasn't doing what we're told all day. But what about moments like when somebody pisses you off real bad. You feel like punching his liver out of him. But you're held back. Why? Because we're told not to do so, by rules, or a command from the brain, telling you the consiquences of doing such an act. What about when you really want to talk to this person for a very long time. You admire that person so much, and you just want to talk to that person. But you can't. Theres something holding you back again, your brain. Everyday, we do as we're told. But why?

Isn't there freedom in life anymore? There are so many restrictions in life. We can't do what we really want to do, because we feel restricted. When humans were dumb, they didn't feel shy to talk to somebody. Only when we start thinking, 'whats she going to say?', 'what would he think?', 'would i screw everything up?' then we start feeling restricted. At the end, we don't do anything. Our mind beats us everyday, and its something i regret doing. I never got a chance to know her any better. And i totally lost her. But that was a long time ago.

Now i start to think less. I don't care if people think im weird or crazy. I do what i do, because it makes me a happier person. I talk louder with more confidence. And at the end of the day, I benefit from it. I lead a better life, and i accomplish more because i dare to do more things. Thinking too much really kills. The next time you feel afraid to approach someone to ask something, don't think of what might happen. All it takes is a simple hello. And a hello could lead to a whole new conversation. And it happens, all by itself, without even thinking. And it ends nicely, with a warm goodbye. Don't regret. I already did.

Start by talking to more people. Even strangers. I like to say hello to everybody in school that i don't even know. Why? It makes me happy when i see a smile on their faces and wave a hello back to me. Its a start of a new friendship. And a friendlier community to live in. Everybody knows you, and everybody is someone you can talk to. You feel so at home, so comfortable.



Feel free to disagree.

Another piece of my mind that i thought about while i was brushing my teeth,
-dudu-

The World Is Crazy

Sometimes we all just feel down and empty inside. Sometimes we feel like theres nobody we can go to. Sometimes we just think that were all in such a big big big mess. Sometimes we just want to breakdown and cry. Sometimes we all think, the world is crazy.

We've all felt like that before. Even i have. Its depressing. You talk about it with your friends, but they can only help you that much. You still feel like theres alot that needs to be done. Like a never-ending chain of events. Soon your friends don't even care about you. Now you don't have anyone to go to. You keep your feelings inside, or you tell the ones that you hardly even know. You take a blind turn, and make mistakes you never dreamt of doing.

The whole world turns on you. Every familiar face hates you. What have you got left? - yourself. Yes, we all forget that we still have ourself. Its the one person we can always trust. Someone we can always depend on. Someone that will never leave you alone. Someone you understand. In the darkest of moments, when you feel you need someone, he/she's right there inside you. The next time you need someone to tell your biggest secret to, tell it to yourself. The next time you encounter a problem, solve it together with yourself. Its like the perfect companion - Never ditches you, never scolds you, never backstabs you. Its time to give your concience a chance to speak up. You'll never know what YOU'RE capable of.

The next time you're stuck in a problem and you're all alone, don't just sit and cry. Tell yourself you got a job to do. Plan how you're going to overcome it. Get up, and do it, because YOU CAN. Its not the end for you, you've got many many many more years to come. Everyday you spend sitting in a hole pondering over sad moments kills you. The faster you get over it, the happier you become. The best is to be 'carefree'.

A piece of my mind,
by Dudu

Chain Mails

There used to be a time where email accounts were filled with 'chain mails'. Everyone logs onto their emails, and they see 22 emails in their inbox, all beginning with the word 'FW:'. Its like a life-threatening message, asking you to send the threat on to a ridiculous amount of people. Whats even more hilarious are the threats themselves. 'If you dont send this to X amount of people, you will wake up tomorrow with a tail on your ass', '... you will find an old fisherman hanging dead by your bedroom', '... you will lose your dick', '... your mother will turn into a fat ugly ogre', etc etc. Its just 500% rubbish.

It gets worse, the citizens that inhabit this ugly earth even take the threat and send it on. I mean, come on, you believe Count Dracula is going to personally show up at your doorstep tomorrow to eat your ass? He's way much more busier than that. I mean come on guys, a threat coming through an email with such jibberish? It just pollutes your email. Thankfully it has lessened and has almost come to a stop now. I thank god for that. But it doesnt stop.....

Where does this junk appear now? In public sites, like friendster, high 5, etc etc. Now our friendster bulletin board is filled with gimmick and bullshit, and its the same shit, from the emails, now transported over to Friendster. Have you heard of the Allen Smith threat on friendster? It tells you that if you dont send the message on to other people in a short period of time, Friendster will cancel your account. Omgwtfbqq? Alright lets take this by steps.
1) Allen Smith? What sick made up name is that? What, is he the Agent from The Matrix?
2) Friendster needs YOU to send this posts to check if your friendster account is kept alive? Bullshit! Friendster obviously knows each time you login, and whatever you do on friendster is constantly monitered by Friendster. Mind you, even if 'Allen Smith' had something to say to you, he wouldnt appear in your personal account inbox. It'll be sent to your email, as an official letter from Friendster.com
3) The period of time given for you to send the letter was no longer than 1 week (i cant remember the exact period), BUT this friendster post gimmick has been on for almost a year now. Get the message?

Please keep our bulletin boards clean from rubbish. You know its plain stupidity so DON'T do it. Now you guys better send this to everyone else or Michael Jackson will personally mollest your sorry ass tomorrow.

-Dudu-

Life

Many different people have many different definations to the word 'life'. Some say its a golf course, filled with many challenges and obstacles. Some say its a story book, filled with different unique chapters of life. Others, though, say Life is totally meaningless, that Life shouldn't be something that is appreciated. Some look at Life as a torture chamber.
Does it all matter?
Everybody goes through Life, and though there are many different ways to look at Life, everyone has gone through some sorrow, some happiness, some pain, some pleasure, some love, some hate. Nowadays, its what most teenagers ever look at, isn't it? They mostly care about how Life goes in school, How they're day went, How i spent my day with my lover, How we celebrated our friends birthday, How boring class was, Which bitch stole who's boyfriend, Which asshole annoyed all the happiness in my day, so on so forth. Mostly everyone looks at Life this way, even i do.
Life, to me, is simply run by our daily activities. Whatever we do today, significantly, affects Life. Lets think of it this way, if you had a good day today, and if you were asked to judge your Life based on that one day, you would say, 'Life is good'. However if you had a bad day, and if asked to judge your life the same way, you would say , 'Life is bad'.
Our daily activities represent our life. Whether life is good or bad is up to you on how you look at your day. Sometimes, we all just need to forget about whatever that HAPPENED, and remember everything we already HAVE. Appreciate whatever you have, it saves you from a bad day, and a bad life. Smile today for a happier tomorrow. =)

Personally written by,
-Dudu-

Shifting blogs

Hey guys,

I have a blog on friendster. But i don't really like the user interface and it kinda stinks for me. So im just going to copy all my posts from there and paste them here in this new blog. Hope you guys like my writing. Please give me some feedback. Thanks!

Yours faithfully,
Dudu